Break up can really be so damn hurtful. But despite the pain and hurt that you feel you still think and miss her company, then you must really be in love with her still. But before you jump into anything and rush things up, take a little of your time first to read this article to be able for you to fully make use of the one and last chance that you have to win her back for good.
- The very first thing that you would need to do when thinking of ways to get her back is to give it some time to think about the situation. Try to analyze what went wrong, make a self evaluation, and try to read the circumstances. This way you would be able to determine the factors which lead her to the decision of ending your once sweet and seemed-never-ending relationship. Having been able to decipher everything you would be able to devise a perfect plant to win her back.
- Now, the most common reason why girls opt to leave their man is usually because of faded attraction. If the things that she has found interesting about you have been lost, they would usually look for the same interesting characteristics with another guy. Now if this is the case, the best thing that you must do is to give her some time and space to think.
- Do not chase after her immediately like you cannot live without her. This might add fuel to her frustration and might lead her to thinking that you are too lame and weak. No chasing after her means no late night calls, text messages, emails, or any form of contact with her; and most importantly, never go to her favorite place, at least not just yet! What you need to do is to make her feel that you are still the best man for her. That she could not find the same traits and characteristics that made her fell in love with you the first time that you met, to another fella.
- Pump yourself up, think about your strengths, and strengthen them more. Also, think about the things that she has most complained about when you were still together. If she hated your ugly beer bellies, then work it out! Go to the gym and build some muscles and six pack abs if possible. Have your hair cut and get yourself some new clothes.
- Be more sociable, go out with old friends and be happy. This would do a lot more in building your confidence and would help in making yourself all new yet a little better. This is in preparation of the big day that you would accidentally meet. Seeing you happy after your break up, not to mention the fact that you have not “shown interest” to be back with her, would make her think of you!
- Finally, after sensing that she also still feels the same way as you do, court her back again and do everything for you to get back together. At least do the same things that she liked you both doing when you were still lovers. You may also incorporate some changes with your style but make sure not to overdo it. Remember that you are banking on the hope to win her back by rekindling the lost attraction and desire.
But Wait! : Sometime situation may be different and you may need to approach differently to get your girlfriend back. Are you thinking it is very difficult or it is impossible to get her back? If you are then you are wrong.You are the person whom your girlfriend loved a lot. So, in all situation you can win her back. Even if she is with another guy, you can still get her back in your arms.
