1. Ask yourself what made him decide to break up with you. Was it because of how you are with him or probably your attitude towards him or his friends? Was it because you were too lax with your relationship that you’ve already taken it for granted? Thinking about such things will give you tips on what to do next.
2. Minimize contact with him. If you’re with the same circle of friends and you can’t help but see each other during get-together, ignore him as much as possible. Don’t be the first one to talk to him, and if he does, keep the conversation short. But while you do, doing the things that made him notice you the first time is helpful. Make him crazy with the things that first attracted him to you, whether it is the way you smile or the way you walk, or probably just the way you are with friends.
3. Don’t act too desperate to win him back. Don’t call or text him. Doing this will make him miss you more. Constantly calling him will only make him feel you’re too desperate to get back to him. Also, as much as you want to, don’t be the first one to suggest that you want to get back with him.
4. Get out and hang out with friends. Keep yourself busy. Going out will help you forget how devastated or frustrated you are with the break up. Your friends might even help you and provide some advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back.
5. Always be yourself. There is certainly a reason why you and your ex boyfriend were once attracted to each other. It could be something that he saw on you the first time he met you that he’s probably not seeing now. You might have changed a lot, and that change made him break up with you. Be that someone whom your boyfriend has first come to know.
