Hair and Nails
- Have a masculine-looking haircut.
- Some boys look good with hair gel or mousse in their hair, so fix up your hair in the morning. Gel adds definition to short hair while mousse can add volume.
- Use a good shampoo and conditioner every 2-3 days. You might be able to cut corners and buy an inexpensive shampoo, but you absolutely cannot cut corners on the conditioner. If you have dandruff, use a shampoo and conditioner designed for dandruff.
- Break Bad Habits: Don't bite your fingernails. Keep them cleaned (use a special nail brush for this) and trimmed to an appropriate length. And buffing can make them look good as well. Break other bad habits as well.
- Don't wash your hair everyday; it will wash out your hair's natural oils, leaving your hair very soft and flat. Instead, wash thoroughly every two or three days.
- Skin Care
- Wash your face each morning with a gentle soap and a plastic wash pouf, rinse thoroughly, Make sure to follow the same routine before going to bed, leaving out the moisturizer if you have oily skin. This can also prevent skin aging.
- Strive for a skin tone you are comfortable with. Do not over obsess about tanning. Just get some sun or a tan a few times.
- Eating Healthy
- Try to avoid excess junk food.
- If you're on a diet, make sure you eat your fruits and vegetables, salad, potatoes, pasta, or soup. Make sure you drink plenty of water or organic juice. Empty calories (whether from fats or simple sugars) which contain little other nutrition (vitamins, minerals, and fiber) will eventually show in your hair, nails, skin, teeth and gums -- not to mention your gut.
- Learn to prepare food. Start with simple things - boil eggs, make sandwiches and salads, cook burgers and steaks, heat frozen veggies, boil rice & pasta.
Clothing
- Some magazines will show you how to dress well as far as the latest fashions are concerned, as well as demonstrate how to behave in situations that call for the clothes they describe.
- Don't forget that the basics are timeless: solid color polo shirts, blue jeans, plain white and black t-shirts [(without advertisements or graphic designs), blue blazers, lace-up dress shoes, and white sneakers. You'll always look presentable.
- Remember to wear clothing which fits well. Clothes a size too small do not make you look thinner or smaller. Dark clothes will help you look a little thinner.
- Dressing right can be very important to girls, but you don't have to go spending hundreds of dollars on the latest and greatest styles. A nice shirt and a clean pair of jeans is more than enough. Try a polo shirt, and a clean pair of somewhat loose jeans. Also, keep your clothes clean. Girls tend not to like a guy who wears a filthy, tattered shirt and baggy, dirt-encrusted jeans. Just be sure it's comfortable for you or else she'll pick up on your discomfort and think it's her.
Personality
- Remember, people have their own minds, and as such has her own thoughts, opinions, and ideals. Don't be confrontational or force your controversial opinions, such as politics.
- Always strive to be of great style, taste, conversation, studies, love, admiration, charisma, and genius. Human beings of planet earth will love you.
- Always think before you speak. If you find yourself asking yourself why you just said something, you are not thinking before you speak. This leads some people to try too hard to be funny, or get tied up in the heat of the moment.
- Always try to be caring. Go out of your way to make each person feel special. Be a gentlemen. If you are breaking up with a girl, do NOT try to hurt her. She will tell her friends, and they will tell their friends. Never seek vengeance. Vengeance shows others that they shouldn't trust you.
- Do not act better than anyone else. Treating everyone as an equal and not being annoying will go a long way when it comes to women, and friends.
- Be clear in your words. Do not repeat yourself, state the obvious or what is already known, and think about everything you say before you say it. This will carry you a long way and make you more intelligent.
Miscellaneous
- Be sweet and sensitive, and listen. Don't treat girls like you would guys.
- Don't always swear and make crude comments. It makes you look immature. Talk about something interesting, and girls love a guy who has a sense of humour and is funny!
- When you are trying to impress girls, don't do stupid and dangerous things because most of the time, the girls aren't impressed.
- If you want to attract a girl, you should concentrate on presenting a challenge. The key to attracting more women is to be unique, which means you should NOT play the "nice guy" role. Think about how many other guys have kissed up to her by basically doing whatever she wants. How does the behavior of other guys differ from yours if you play nice? That's right: it doesn't. Nice guys are bland, unoriginal and subsequently, replaceable. By being a nice guy, this automatically puts you on a low emotional level in her mind since you are no different from the next guy. Show her that you have a life, have other options, and that she can be replaced at any time if you please. Show off your masculinity and demonstrates that you are now an actual challenge for this woman and that she must pursue you in order to win the "prize" - that's you. If you do not break away from the nice guy persona, women will keep mentally throwing you into the 'boring' or 'plain' and recycle bin. The "Cat String Theory" states that if you dangle a string in front of a cat, it will do everything to get it. But if you just give the string to the cat, it will become uninterested and find something else. Apply this to women: if you don't challenge her or give her the "supplies are limited" and "offer will not last" impression, she will quite simply move on. Show her that if she wants this "deal", she must take on your challenge; THIS is what attracts her and makes you different from every other guy who believes kissing her butt will eventually win her over. Give the impression that you don't know if you're really interested in her and she will work for you.
- I'm sorry, I know I'm not editing this right but this is the stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life. Sure you don't want to be a suck-up and do whatever she wants to do, but you don't need to demand something from her and tell her she can't do what she wants to do if you do that she will feel like you are controlling her and she will feel like she can't make her own decisions and that is bad. And whoever wrote this is stupid because you don't know what it does to girls when we feel like we're a piece of crap, and that's what it comes across as when you're "Showing her you have a life and that you have other options" that's pure stupidity. And when she feels like this when she tells her friends (and trust me she will) you will become the bad guy to all of her friends, and any of them that might have had a crush on you will realize your just a big jerk and that they can do much much better.
Btw.......it differ frm girl to girl tht wht type of boy she wants...!! :P
